Sometimes things just get stuck. Arguments get repeated over and over. Time is wasted justifying our actions in the past. Relationships once they are damaged can take a very long time to heal. There is one thing; however that may speed up this process. It involves one person simply taking the high road. Dr. Phil appropriately calls it being a “Hero”. It truly is a powerful and giving act.

Simply deciding the other person and the relationship is of greater value than the past. Forgive everything, judge nothing, and be love. If you want to change a relationship that is stuck and filled with anger, try these three things for one month. If you are in rehab for 90 days why not try it for the whole 90. Start with forgiving everything. Just forgive it all. Forgive the other person and forgive yourself.

Then judge nothing. Make no assumptions, stop looking for errors or proof you were and are right. Simply be grateful for the other person. Ask and expect nothing. Then what ever you think love is, let it show. Give it with everything you have. Give with no judgment or expectation. Giving totally without expectation is a risky move some would say. Kind of sounds like something a hero would do. Want to really make a difference while you are in drug rehab? Be a hero in a relationship that is damaged in your life.

The original is here: US Drug Rehab Centers